Not Every Affair Is Bad

by D Wagner
(Osmewhere in Oregon)

I have been married to a man who had brin surgery 8 months after we married. He became vegetative but eventually he is very debilitated but stabe. I have stayed faithful to him for 34 years. Then one day I met my sweet guy. He was looking, and I was wanting something too. We met and have had a passionate affair for the last 9 months. His wife had a double mastectomy, cancer returned in the spine. Needless to say he has issues at home as well. We need each other, we both choose to stay with our spouses and not abandon them at the worse time of their lives, but we need to take care of US to, and this is how we do it. He has only EVER been with his wife, and I with my hubby, so we have a great relationship. If the spouses die, we will stay like we are, we are not anxious for that day. We just help each other find a happier place a couple times per week. We dont have sex with our spouses so...