Signs he is cheating - 32 Early warning signs to watch out for

Here is a more comprehensive list to show signs he is cheating - including those signs you can watch out for when you don't live with the guy.

1) He becomes more secretive and your gut feeling says something isn’t right.

2) He has taken extra curricular activities without you – and it is regular too (This can be jogging in the morning, regular visit to the library).

3) He is suddenly interested in taking dancing class or martial arts and he normally is a couch potato.

4) You find contraception in his or your cabinet, and its being used.

5) He seems to be aloof and lifeless – and he doesn’t say anything when asked what’s wrong.

6) He seems disinterested in sex, or is extremely interested (Although you feel the emotional connection is not there).

7) The car mileage does not add up. He also insists child seat and toys are kept out of his car.

8) He is extremely interested in your schedule and what you are doing. This is a big one compared to other signs he is cheating.

9) He has ‘private’ email accounts and a different mobile phone.

10) He locks his mobile phone; you never see the cell phone bill anymore either.

11) He hits the shower and change clothes first thing when he returns from work (He normally hugs you first).

12) You smell a different perfume in his clothes or car.

13) He is starting to take more interest in the gym.

14) He deleted call history from his mobile phones.

15) He is defensive, or he accuses you of cheating out of guilt.

16) He asks you weird questions about your relationship, ‘what do you think of our relationship?’, ‘what would happen if one day we get divorced, break up’ etc. A cheating spouse would want to have a sense of what would happen.

17) He doesn’t wear his wedding ring.

18) He takes extra interest in his appearance including new underwear and boxer.

19) Working overtime a lot.

20) A cheating spouse is also secretive when he picks up the phone – he would go to another room to make sure you don’t hear it.

21) He picks fights, and he gets extremely angry at the smallest thing followed by stomping out of the house to ‘get some fresh air’.

22) He takes some time off work and he is supposedly working. (A smart cheating spouse would forward his work number to a mobile phone so it is a little hard to catch him on this).

23) He skips dinner here and there.

24) The commute takes longer from and to work.

25) You start getting prank calls a lot more than normal at home.

26) He gets out of the house during weird hours such as early morning or midnight saying he needs a short cigarette. He may even sneak out of the house when you are sleeping.

27) He is stuck with his mobile phone; it’s like his second shadow.

28) He gets defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.

29) Credit card statement doesn’t make sense, phone bills also doesn’t make sense.

30) He is indifferent to holidays (A cheating spouse sometimes prefers to spend time with his mistress, so holidays mean you are watching him every second and he wouldn’t be able to do anything).

31) You catch him lying a lot to cover up the signs he is cheating.

32) He is avoiding you.

Lastly, you know he is cheating on you - or you have a pretty good suspicion that he does, otherwise you would not be looking at this 32 comprehensive signs he is cheating.

As you hopefully know, you cannot blatantly accuse him of cheating, and it is quite hard to even convince yourself that he is really cheating without a hard evidence proof.

So it would be a good idea to do something about it. You don't want to spend weeks, months or even years wondering if your spouse is doing you wrong. You want to learn the truth.

The truth sometimes hurts, but I hope you agree with me that finding out the truth is better than living in the dark - or thinking constantly that you are being lied to.

P.S. I highly recommend you see the FREE "Sure Fire Signs" report here, it's valuable for anyone who may suspect this ever ... and at worst, it's great to keep just in case....

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